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genderaffirming.ai is a gender-affirming chatbot. It's powered by insights directly from the online trans community - /r/mtf and /r/ftmon Reddit. Use it as your own personal gender-affirming AI therapist, or to simply explore concepts and ideas from a trans perspective.
Please be aware that this site only includes perspectives from people who identify as transgender MTF or FTM. It does not include other perspectives. If you are considering transition, make sure you consider the experiences of those who have detransitioned. See detrans.ai to explore topics from a detrans perspective.
Am I valid?
Quick reassurance when you are doubting
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What's an egg?
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What causes dysphoria?
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What does it mean to be a woman?
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What does it mean to be a man?
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What does it mean to be a non-binary?
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Was I born in the wrong body?
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Are there male brains and female brains?
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How long will it take before I pass?
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Will I be happy once I pass?
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Am I trans enough if I do not have dysphoria every day?
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Can my identity shift over time?
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Do I need to prove anything to anyone?
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Are trans tomboys valid?
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Are trans femboys valid?
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Can trans women become biological females?
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Can trans men become biological males?
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What if I only feel dysphoric in certain situations?
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Is it okay to explore labels privately before telling anyone?
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What are the transition rates for trans men vs trans women?
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How can I overcome dysphoria?
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How do I know if I'm transgender and not just gender non-conforming?
Names, pronouns and everyday life
Practical tools for getting through the week
Dysphoria and mental health hacks
Coping with feeling uncomfortable in your body
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I've always been a feminine man, am I trans?
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What are five minute grounding exercises for body dysphoria?
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How do I tell the difference between dysphoria and ordinary body image bad days?
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Can hormones or surgery be one tool but not the whole toolbox?
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What do I do if my dysphoria spikes after starting HRT?
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How can meditation help dysphoria?
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Where can I find free, trans competent crisis lines?
Medical roadmap, no pressure
Consider your options before making big decisions.
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What are the health effects and risks of HRT?
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At what age should I start HRT?
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What is the usual order of steps if I want hormones in my country?
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What are the reversible versus irreversible changes of HRT with a timeline chart?
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How do I check whether my insurance covers blockers or HRT?
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What questions should I ask the endocrinologist at the first consult?
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What is the actual regret rate cited by major studies with citations?
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Can I bank sperm or eggs on a tight budget?
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I'm non-binary, should I get nullifcation surgery?
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Should I get phaloplasty surgery?
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How do I find a good surgeon for phalloplasty surgery?
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Should I get vaginoplasty?
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What are the different types of vaginoplasty surgery?
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How do I find a good surgeon for vaginoplasty surgery?
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Is it a good idea to get vaginoplasty?
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Is it a good idea to get phalloplasty?
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What are the least invasive ways to deal with facial hair?
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What is the real scoop on puberty blocker reversibility in 2024?
Family, dating and coming out
Scripts and safety plans
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How do I come out to a partner who says they are super straight?
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How do I protect my privacy if I am not ready to tell my parents?
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What are red flags that a therapist is not gender affirming?
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How can I find local trans meet ups that are not Facebook based?
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What are my rights at school or work in my state or country?
Trans Sex Life & Intimacy Guide
Safer sex, dysphoria hacks and pleasure tips for trans, non-binary and post-op bodies
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What are safe sex toys for trans women with bottom dysphoria?
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What is the best dilator schedule after trans vaginoplasty surgery?
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How can I ask my partner for trans affirming dirty talk?
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What are the contraception options available for trans men on testosterone?
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Why are my top surgery scars are sensitive during sex?
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What erection aids are there for trans women on HRT?
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Is it normal for your orgasm to change after starting testosterone?
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How to navigate hookup apps safely as a trans person?
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Why am I so horny after starting testosterone?
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How can I disclose my trans identity to a casual partner?
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Dealing with bottom dysphoria during sex trans tips
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What lube ingredients should I avoid post vaginoplasty as a trans woman
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Which sex positions minimise hip dysphoria for trans women?
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How to maintain anal health after phalloplasty?
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How to find trans friendly STI testing clinics?
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How to find low cost viagra or cialis for trans women?
De-transitioning and Re-transitioning
Explore the sensitive topics of de-transition and re-transition from a detrans perspective to make sure you're informed.
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