detrans.ai + genderaffirming.aiCompare Perspectives
genderaffirming.ai will affirm your gender identity. It uses OpenAI's gpt-4o model, which has safety guard-rails on gender topics. It integrates human experiences and insights from the online trans community - /r/mtf and /r/ftm.
detrans.ai provides a more critical view of gender as it answers questions from a detrans perspective. It uses the Chinese kimi-k2-instruct model to reduce Western political bias. It integrates thoughts and experiences from the online /r/detrans community.
This page allows you to use both detrans.ai and genderaffirming.ai side-by-side. This allows for a direct comparison between the perspectives of those who currently identify as trans and those who have moved on from trans identity, offering insight into the diverse and sometimes conflicting viewpoints surrounding gender identity.
Disclaimer:
The experiences shared on this site are sourced from Reddit and processed by AI. While Reddit is a platform where real people share personal stories, it may also contain bot-generated or misleading content. You are encouraged to inspect the original Reddit posts to verify the source and context. Please note that /r/detrans is a heavily moderated subreddit, but moderation does not guarantee the accuracy or authenticity of every post.
The experiences shared on this site are sourced from Reddit and processed by AI. While Reddit is a platform where real people share personal stories, it may also contain bot-generated or misleading content. You are encouraged to inspect the original Reddit posts to verify the source and context. Please note that /r/detrans is a heavily moderated subreddit, but moderation does not guarantee the accuracy or authenticity of every post.
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Featured Compare Questions
Spicy questions to ask both trans and detrans people...
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What is a man?
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What is a woman?
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Are trans men biological males?
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Are trans women biological women?
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What is gender affirming care?
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What is gender exploratory therapy?
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Can people be born in the wrong body?
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Why do some people de-transition?
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How many people de-transition?
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Why do some people re-transition after de-transitioning?
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What's an egg?
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What's the closet?
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What is feminism?
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What is non-binary identity?
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Does transition ever end?
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Why do some women hate their breasts?
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Why do some people de-transition?
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Were detrans people real trans people?
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Why do people identify as queer now?
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Is gender-affirming care based on science?
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Why are the rates of people who identify as trans increasing?
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Why is gender dysphoria no longer treated as a mental health issue?
Am I valid?
Quick reassurance when you are doubting
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What's an egg?
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What causes dysphoria?
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What does it mean to be a woman?
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What does it mean to be a man?
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What does it mean to be a non-binary?
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Was I born in the wrong body?
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Are there male brains and female brains?
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How long will it take before I pass?
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Will I be happy once I pass?
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Am I trans enough if I do not have dysphoria every day?
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Can my identity shift over time?
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Do I need to prove anything to anyone?
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Are trans tomboys valid?
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Are trans femboys valid?
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Are trans women biological females?
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Are trans men biological males?
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What if I only feel dysphoric in certain situations?
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Is it okay to explore labels privately before telling anyone?
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What are the transition rates for trans men vs trans women?
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How can I overcome dysphoria?
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How do I know if I'm transgender and not just gender non-conforming?
Names, pronouns and everyday life
Practical tools for getting through the week
Dysphoria and mental health hacks
Coping with feeling uncomfortable in your body
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I've always been a feminine man, am I trans?
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What are five minute grounding exercises for body dysphoria?
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How do I tell the difference between dysphoria and ordinary body image bad days?
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Can hormones or surgery be one tool but not the whole toolbox?
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What do I do if my dysphoria spikes after starting HRT?
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How can meditation help dysphoria?
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Where can I find free, trans competent crisis lines?
Medical roadmap, no pressure
Consider your options before making big decisions.
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What are the health effects and risks of HRT?
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At what age should I start HRT?
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What is the usual order of steps if I want hormones in my country?
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What are the reversible versus irreversible changes of HRT with a timeline chart?
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How do I check whether my insurance covers blockers or HRT?
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What questions should I ask the endocrinologist at the first consult?
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What is the actual regret rate cited by major studies with citations?
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Can I bank sperm or eggs on a tight budget?
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I'm non-binary, should I get nullifcation surgery?
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Should I get phaloplasty surgery?
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How do I find a good surgeon for phalloplasty surgery?
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Should I get vaginoplasty?
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What are the different types of vaginoplasty surgery?
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How do I find a good surgeon for vaginoplasty surgery?
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When will my vagina be a vagina?
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What are the least invasive ways to deal with facial hair?
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What is the real scoop on puberty blocker reversibility in 2024?
Family, dating and coming out
Scripts and safety plans
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How do I come out to a partner who says they are super straight?
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How do I protect my privacy if I am not ready to tell my parents?
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What are red flags that a therapist is not gender affirming?
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How can I find local trans meet ups that are not Facebook based?
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What are my rights at school or work in my state or country?
Trans Sex Life & Intimacy Guide
Safer sex, dysphoria hacks and pleasure tips for trans, non-binary and post-op bodies
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What are safe sex toys for trans women with bottom dysphoria?
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What is the best dilator schedule after trans vaginoplasty surgery?
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How can I ask my partner for trans affirming dirty talk?
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What are the contraception options available for trans men on testosterone?
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Why are my top surgery scars are sensitive during sex?
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What erection aids are there for trans women on HRT?
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Is it normal for your orgasm to change after starting testosterone?
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How to navigate hookup apps safely as a trans person?
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Why am I so horny after starting testosterone?
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How can I disclose my trans identity to a casual partner?
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Dealing with bottom dysphoria during sex trans tips
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What lube ingredients should I avoid post vaginoplasty as a trans woman
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Which sex positions minimise hip dysphoria for trans women?
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How to maintain anal health after phalloplasty?
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How to find trans friendly STI testing clinics?
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How to find low cost viagra or cialis for trans women MTF?