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Authenticity Assessment: Not Suspicious
Based on the provided comments, the account does not show clear red flags of being inauthentic, a bot, or not a detransitioner/desister.
The user expresses a consistent, nuanced personal philosophy (philosophical anarchist, "live and let live"), shares personal details (gay, Black, effeminate), and offers empathetic, personalized advice. The writing style is human-like, with natural digressions, humor, and varied vocabulary. The passion and criticism align with known detransitioner perspectives.
There are no serious red flags indicating this is a fake account.
About me
I was a happy, feminine boy who enjoyed being mistaken for a girl, but I never felt my body was wrong. I got caught up in online communities in my early twenties and felt pressured to adopt a trans identity, which I now regret. I realized I didn't need a label and that my true struggle was with society's expectations, not my own body. I never medically transitioned, and my detransition was simply a shift back to accepting myself as a gay man. Now, I focus on self-acceptance and believe we should let kids explore who they are without any pressure.
My detransition story
My journey with all this gender stuff was complicated, but it wasn't the typical story you hear about today. I was a feminine boy growing up, and I was always getting "misgendered" by people who thought I was a girl. I actually liked it; it made me feel special. When we played games, I always wanted to be the girl character, but I was perfectly happy being a boy in reality. I never felt like my body was wrong. For me, it was more about expression and escaping the boring expectations for boys.
I see a huge difference between people like me, who are just comfortable being different, and what I now see as a kind of cult-like ideology that targets young people. I believe there are genuine transsexuals who have a lifelong, deep-seated dysphoria and feel they are the opposite sex internally. But that’s different from the current "trans" movement, which feels more like a mass psychogenic illness or a social contagion, especially affecting kids going through the normal discomforts of puberty. I was never influenced by friends to transition; my own experience was more personal and internal.
My thoughts on gender are pretty simple. I think you should be free to live how you want. Wear a dress or trousers, call yourself he or she, act feminine or butch. If you’re an adult, have surgery if you think it will make you feel better. But the most important thing is independence of thought. We need to let children be children, let them explore themselves without pressure. I’m gay, and I feel this ideology is actually harming gay people around the world by creating a backlash.
I never medically transitioned. I never took hormones or had any surgeries. My transition was entirely social and internal, and my detransition was really just a shift in my thinking. I realised I didn't need to fit into a label. I regret getting so caught up in the ideology. I regret that I ever let myself feel pressured by online spaces to think of myself in a certain way. The big regret is not listening to that quiet, nagging voice inside me sooner. Every step of the way, something didn't feel right, and I wish I’d paid attention to that. I benefited from stepping away from those affirming echo chambers and just learning to be me.
I struggled with low self-esteem and anxiety, and I used things like meditation and positive affirmations to help quiet my mind. I also believe we are souls inhabiting a body—a "meat puppet"—and finding that inner peace was more important than changing the outside. I had a problem with porn, which I see as an addiction, but it was separate from my gender feelings. Exploring different ideas, reading widely, and travelling were what really helped me. They expanded my "reality tunnel" and showed me there was a whole world outside of this intense focus on identity.
Here is a timeline of my journey based on my experiences:
Age | Event |
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Childhood | Happy as a feminine boy. Enjoyed being "misgendered" and playing female characters in games. |
Teen Years | Felt the normal discomfort of puberty but never felt my body was wrong. Explored my identity internally. |
Early 20s | Got involved in online communities and felt pressure to identify with trans ideology. Socially explored a non-binary identity. |
Mid-Late 20s | Began to feel something was wrong. Started listening to my internal doubts. Stopped identifying with trans ideology. |
Present | Detransitioned socially. Now see myself as a gay man with feminine traits. Focused on self-acceptance and living freely without labels. |
Top Comments by /u/Franc_Kaos:
George Orwell believed that totalitarian systems control language in order to prevent their citizens from expressing or thinking rebellious thoughts, writing 'If thought corrupts language, language can also corrupt thought'.
Who controls the past controls the future; who controls the present controls the past.
The Buggery Act of 1533 was the first law in England to specifically outlaw anal sex, describing it as a “detestable and abominable Vice” punishable by death. However, it wasn’t until 27 July 1967 that the Sexual Offences Act decriminalized private homosexual acts between consenting men over the age of 21.
Why would he even think about including characters like that in a world where it was a completely hidden sub culture...
HP Lovecraft was a raging racist and I still love his books.
I'm black (and happily gay) btw, but I recognise the world back then where racism was systemic.
I also still love Song of the South even tho' Disney try to pretend it never happened (luckily fans have restored it), but I'm pretty sure it was the first time I saw a black man and child on TV being equal to the other characters (I didn't really grok slavery at that age).
George Orwell said it best with doublethink and the rewriting of history.
There's a huge gulf between transexuals (those with actual dysphoria who cannot feel at ease in their bodies) and the Trans idealogues (basically a cult that feels more like a mind virus targeting and infecting youth).
Blair White is a transexual who is now saying she's a transphobe according to those people so the word has become meaningless (me is left leaning, gay, black and a philosophical anarchist), so no, I don' think you are.
If one can leave womens spaces and sport to women (I also refuse to use the word CIS as it has become a slur), don't hate a particular group (white heterosexual men, detransitioners, lesbians / gays who only want to sleep with the same sex), and don't want to brainwash children then live your best life in any way that makes you feel happy.
I'm kind of scared to tell my friends since they're- how do I put this nicely- they are the type to get very offended by things.
Knowing ourselves and loving ourselves are equally important things. It's also a great thing when others know and love us for who we are. It's even better when they help us know and love ourselves through their eyes.
Winnie the Pooh
Good luck BTW :)
Trans people do exist, can be happy, and live their entire life without regret.
Trans ideology has nothing to do with trans people wanting to live their best lives.
https://iea.org.uk/publications/transgender-ideology-a-new-threat-to-liberal-values/ (read without prejudice)
The problem is there are 2 types of trans, those with lifelong dysphoria who feel they are the opposite sex internally (and want to be identified as that sex) and those with puberty issues of self identification (or parents who want TickTok fame).
We need to split into two groups LGBT (as in actual transexuals) and TQIA+ (trans, non binaries and self identified queer).
I kind'a think asexuals are probably part of the first group but is it more of a choice than a physical thing?
It's time to kill the alphabet community - Take off & nuke it from orbit, it's the only way to be sure...
Gay black man with feminine undertones who see's how this insanity is actually worsening the lives of our gay brothers and sisters in many parts of the world (especially Africa and the Middle East), which many Google searches attribute to Right Wing rise but I believe is a response to anti TQIA+ insanity, frenzy and tokenism.
All IMHO of course :) Should I post? Ah fuck it... This is an opinion only!
but I was called transphobic and shut down so much I quit talking about it.
I pretty much call myself transphobic now, and anti woke - it's quicker (I'm gay and mostly black)...
My beliefs include living how you want - wear a dress or trousers, call yourself he or she, act feminine or butch, have surgery if it will make you feel better (after 21), include other races and gender types in films and advertising...
But along with that I believe in independence of thought and letting children be children, let them explore themselves and their environment, care about not just themselves and their immediate community but their world and all the people sharing it.
Politically I'm a philosophical anarchist with a feminine bent - but they see me as a right wing extremist
People who haven't even experienced sex-dyphoria will argue with you, saying you are wrong and don't represent "trans people".
In truth neither do they. The word 'trans' has been co-opted from its original meaning (much as we co-opted the word 'gay').
The medical profession joined in as it created lifelong paying customers.
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Transphobic = Not actually transphobic just another weaponised word by the woke cult if you disagree with it...
Do pronouns actually matter if you're not forcing everyone around you to validate you with them? I'm mostly he / him but sometimes I feel like he / they and even he / she. I don't discuss this with anyone, just how I feel :)
Peace
At the risk of getting downvoted to oblivion...
You are not your body, you are a soul inhabiting a meat puppet!
Quiet your mind, maybe through meditation, dance, walks, Tai Chi, swimming...
If self medicating with recreational drugs then stop as they can really mess with your mind if it's restless. Can't really comment on porn addiction as I have it too (but better than my old addiction).
When I was really low I used to go to sleep listening to subliminal music and repeating positive affirmations every morning (can't promise it works but the brain tends to believe something if you keep repeating it).
Whatever, sending good vibes and strength your way - but also, don't be afraid to show your true face to the world however you manifest it. Good luck & oceans of love!