Omfg the men in the comments here still trying to act like their transition was innocent and not based off false ideas what it means to be female. That and sexualising everything of course. If you’re going to engage in discussions try not defending why you thought you could take some pills and become a female.

This is so upsetting. I think trans women get this because the results from the outside look fine sometimes, it slightly resembles a natal vagina. But the problems that come from it are so scary, and likely not explained in full from greedy doctors. I know trans people are obsessed with aesthetics, I was too and am trying to overcome it.

Anyone living with this, I’m so sorry. I hope you can get the medical attention you need. I’d love to hear people’s experiences from detrans males who had bottom surgery.

i feel the same way right now. it hurts... i’m also scared to admit to the people around me i dislike how i sound, as “i’m still glad my voice changed” was something i said when first coming off T. now i dislike it so much, but am ashamed to admit it, bc i did this to myself.

i wish you luck. i am attempting voice training secretly and hopefully will gradually sound more feminine again

Having to be belittled as a trans man by trans women, apparently because we as trans men are oppressors to them, is laughable. Everything about trans woman is so male and we are all under their control because they cry they are most oppressed. I went from being a powerless female in society to a powerless masculine person in trans community and who causes it all? Males. Many people within trans community won’t speak out or will continue to be manipulated by ideology, coming out the other side, angry about how things are, come off as “transphobic” but these things are just fact that get ignored all to save some male’s feelings of “dysphoria”. Now, I am an empowered female who speaks out against this stuff, it’s all such nonsense.

I definitely relate to wanting to be ignorant about trans people. I wish I could be an ally and support them, it’s easy if it’s not personal. All of my friends are trans but I just see them as them. But as someone who was in that community, and knows how trans women dominate the space, aka males continuing to oppress females, it makes me so angry. I am waiting and waiting for it to be addressed, how tf there can progressive gender ideology include “man dresses up as a woman to get most oppressed points but still gets the spotlight everywhere and claims trans men can oppress them”

Really, what makes them a woman??? I see 85% of them on the MtF subreddit talk about getting turned on dressing feminine and that’s their entire basis for thinking they are a woman. They all claim AGP isn’t real. NO trans man transitions because of seeing prn, because they get wet seeing themselves in boxer shorts. That subreddit constantly telling prn-riddled men to transition. How have so many people become braindead to the point they think these men are women because it satisfies them sexually?! It’s sick.

It’s very difficult to see how blind everyone is, or maybe they aren’t. Maybe they think it’s fine to transition because of prn, which is confusing. It’s all about sexual stuff with males

You think a woman trying to become male is the same? Then you have no sympathy for what it means to be female.

I have sympathy for men who transitioned from trauma, abuse, etc. I know not all of it is the same, some are wronged by doctors, others trying to escape. But this post is about AGPs so that is what my response is about.

I definitely understand this, especially seeing someone use “she/they” and “he/they” for when they are GNC but is obviously not thinking of medically transitioning. Kind of a safety net, avoiding not conforming, instead making a new label.

GNC will save us from this madness though. If people can just know it’s ok to present however they want and it doesn’t mean you should try to change genders, we will go back to only having true trans people, aka very few

Like?! Aren’t they suppose to lose some of their libido on E? And I’m sure it’s somewhere but not as often, I never see this much sexualising from trans men despite their libido being increased on testosterone? It’s almost like females can resist the urge to be sexual in public because they know it’s inappropriate and makes people uncomfortable.

I always found it creepy but thought I just had to put up with it. I explained in a previous post how I went from being an oppressed female in society who got talked over, to being talked over in the trans community, and how male privilege will exist in whatever place you think of, even if people have “transitioned sexes”

If we apply that in the opposite way: I had a feeling I was a guy since I was around 7 years old, but it did not stop me being sexualised as a child because of being female, bullied by males because I wasn’t a stereotypical attractive girl, etc. Like there is no way privilege doesn’t exist growing up as a boy/man, even if one has felt like a girl for a long time, people didn’t know that, and they were treated male, and had to somewhat blend in as male, benefitting from said privilege. Idk!! This argument is always made only for trans women, nobody has ever been passionate to advocate “I had male privilege as AFAB because I knew I was a boy” likeeee. There is so much we have to ignore for trans women, they get the biggest amount of attention, and isn’t that the most male thing ever, lol