Totally agree with you, I don’t think you can actually support detrans people if you can’t come to terms with the fact that many of us genuinely hated what we put ourselves through and that we genuinely regret our transition and don’t cope by saying it was “part of the journey”. You can’t have any actual useful conversation if you can’t accept that many of the people who went through detransition become critical of gender ideology because of the damage it did to them and not because they hate all trans people now. The transgender ideology movement is so full of toxic positivity it genuinely comes off as delusional, which is why so many people call them that, they don’t see how cannibalistic and backwards they’ve become and then act all surprised pikachu when people start criticizing them and actually pushing back on the horrid “scientific evidence”.

I feel so seen right now lmao, I really hate the informed consent model idc how it makes me look, being freshly 18 walking into that clinic and being given a prescription for male steroids within the span of less than 30 mins after only 3-5 questions is grounds for a medical malpractice lawsuit.

Yeah I’ve picked that up from simply looking at the top three posts lol, it’s totally stolen valor imo. People who encourage medical transition after detransitioning and act like having to, for example, get major breast reconstruction if top surgery is regretted, isn’t a big deal because “you got to explore yourself 🌈✨🌟” genuinely have to be insane.

Well yeah we detransitioned for a reason, and every time we talk about it on any other platform that isn’t specifically open to detransition we get attacked for literally just existing. If I had a dollar for every time I simply said “as a detransitioner” and someone said “you know it was your fault it’s your consequence don’t project that onto others”. We have a right to speak about how we were negatively impacted by transition, the same way trans people have a right to talk about how they feel positively about theirs, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with telling people the very real and true negative consequences of transition. Many of the “sources” given to those who do seek or are curious about transition are incredibly biased and funded by activist groups, those who truly truly want to transition deserve every bit of information they can get and deserve proper ethical advice and support. The modern way of handling people with gender dysphoria is horrific and the consequences to those unethical practices are catching up. I personally do not think a trans lifestyle is healthy for anyone, but if someone truly wants to look into it and gets sound medical advice they deserve much better than what the recent medical standard entails.

You are a legal adult, you can do whatever you want medically or surgically in the U.S if you have the money, the only thing that could be mildly challenging would be the legal sex change. A lot of the “fear” could be coming from the massive fear mongering the trans community perpetuates simply because most Americans want to acknowledge biological sex.

Absolutely, I hope it’s not disrespectful for me to bring religion into this but as I’m learning more about my own spiritual journey and life, Jesus Christ is the ultimate example of true masculinity in Christianity, and He is not a sex craving oppressive misogynist. I believe this attitude towards men in modern society is exactly what is bringing us down and causing so much strife between women and men, and convincing some that they may be the other gender.

I feel so seen by your comment lmao, I feel the exact same way, it’s actually so scary to see people literally recommending permanent life altering procedures for the sake of “experimenting” actually it’s more than scary, it’s imo even demonic. The amount of people with complications literally outweighs those without and you can see that clearly on ftm and mtf surgery subreddits, almost all of them are botched, and many more than we think are left with serious infections and life altering complications. Not only just with the surgery but with the hormones too, the amount of women I’ve seen having to loose their uterus’ because of how damaging testosterone is to the female body is so sad, not only that but complications with vaginal atrophy ect, I’m not even sure which sex has it worse when it comes to bad side effects from cross sex hormones. The fact that they’re promoting this to younger and younger people is actually disgusting and reckless.

The idea that it’s our fault and being constantly berated with that same attitude of “you made the choices” is so tiring and frustrating, I was given T at freshly 18, my mental health was horrific and no one even thought to ask me about that, planned parenthood sat me down for 15 mins asked 5 questions and prescribed me the hormones on the same day, that should be considered medical malpractice and I sincerely hope PP gets sued and shutdown for it. Atleast the gender identity part of it.

Same happened with me, I was coping so hard because I really didn’t want to admit that it truly was a mistake that I actually regret and would’ve been better without.

I didn’t grow resentful at first and I was still pro-trans until I starting seeing so much hate and shit talk about detranstioning and detransitioners. The trans community kept insisting that since I went through transition (T for almost 2 years) that I still wasnt cis and “under the trans umbrella” of course they revoked that idea once I actually started becoming more critical of the evidence and began actually questioning things and looking up the science myself (there is absolutely little to no evidence of transition actually being healthy and consistent long term, if anything there’s more on the opposite end)

Exactly honestly to me it’s akin to affirming someone’s eating disorder and encouraging them to keep their behaviors going instead of actually trying to find a solution. Trans identified people deserve better healthcare all around, this doesn’t mean opening the flood gates for rapid medical intervention, I think the solution is the exact opposite. The medical system is doing them a huge disservice in an attempt to cater to activist groups instead of actually trying to make sure that people are properly diagnosed and treated.

yeah honestly even when I was trans identifying I wasn’t really attracted to trans men, the majority of my attraction was towards biological men. I relate to feeling as though I was so unattractive towards men that I just thought maybe if I tried to be a gay guy then I’d be able to experience gay love the way I thought I liked men, turns out gay men also don’t really like masculinized females.