This story is from the comments by /u/Ryncage that are listed below, summarised with AI.
User Authenticity Assessment: Not Suspicious
Based on the analysis of Ryncage's comments, the account appears authentic and not a bot. The user demonstrates a consistent, nuanced, and passionate perspective aligned with a desister or detransitioner who is highly critical of the medical and social aspects of gender transition, especially for youth.
Key points supporting authenticity:
- Personal Investment: The comments show deep, repeated engagement with the emotional and physical struggles of detransition, regret, and societal pressure. The advice is often lengthy, detailed, and tailored to specific user situations, which is complex for a bot to generate consistently.
- Consistent Worldview: The user maintains a very consistent ideology across years of posting: that transitioning is often a harmful political or social contagion, that individuals are failed by systems and therapists, and that the root cause of dysphoria is rarely addressed. This is a recognized, though controversial, viewpoint within the detrans community.
- Human-like Rhetoric: The language includes nuanced arguments, rhetorical questions, and a conversational tone that evolves slightly over time but remains coherent with a single persona. The user also expresses emotions like anger, disgust, and sadness, which align with the stated passion of genuine detransitioners.
Conclusion:
There are no serious red flags indicating this is a bot or a bad-faith actor. The account exhibits the hallmarks of a very passionate and opinionated individual whose views are firmly within the scope of the critical discourse found on /r/detrans
. The consistency and depth of engagement strongly suggest a real person sharing their genuine perspective.
About me
I started as a teenager who was deeply uncomfortable with my body and found the idea of being trans online. I was convinced that medically transitioning was the answer, but testosterone didn't fix my underlying self-hatred and depression. I realized I was using it to escape my real problems instead of facing them. Now, I am detransitioning and working on self-acceptance as a female. I regret the permanent changes and wish I had been encouraged to explore the reasons for my unhappiness first.
My detransition story
My journey with all of this started when I was a teenager. I was really uncomfortable with my body and hated going through puberty. I felt like there was something deeply wrong with me, and I couldn't figure out why I felt so disgusted with myself. I spent a lot of time online, and that’s where I first encountered the idea that maybe I was trans. It seemed like an answer to all my problems. The communities I found were so accepting and sure of themselves; they told me that these feelings meant I was born in the wrong body and that transitioning was the way to be happy.
I socially transitioned first. I started asking people to use a different name and pronouns. It felt good at first, like I was finally taking control. Everyone online was so supportive, and it was easy to get swept up in the validation. I convinced myself that medical transition was the next logical step. I started taking testosterone. I was told it would make me feel complete, that it was the key to solving my self-hatred.
But the further I went, the more I realized something was off. The T did change my body—my voice dropped, I grew more body hair—but the deep-seated disgust I felt about myself didn’t go away. I just found new things to hate. I started to understand that I had been using transition as a form of escapism. I had a lot of other issues: depression, anxiety, and I really struggled with low self-esteem. I was trying to run away from those problems instead of facing them. Transitioning felt like a distraction, a way to pretend I was dealing with my issues when I really wasn't.
A big turning point for me was realizing how political the whole thing had become. It stopped being about individual happiness and more about pushing an agenda. I saw that if you even questioned the path of transition, you were treated like a traitor. Your value to the community disappeared the moment you stepped out of line. They wanted more people to join, and anyone who said, "Hey, maybe explore other options first," was silenced. It felt like I was part of a group that cared more about numbers than my actual well-being.
I started to detransition. It was a hard thing to admit. I felt stupid and manipulated. I was angry at the adults and professionals who had encouraged me down this path without ever asking the tough questions. Why was I really unhappy? What was I trying to escape? They failed me. They offered a drastic, permanent solution instead of helping me dig into the root causes of my pain. I had internalized a lot of negative messages about what it meant to be a woman, and instead of challenging those ideas, I was told to change my body.
I don't think there's anything wrong with the body I was born with. My problem was never that I was female; it was that I hated myself and thought changing my body was the solution. I regret the time I lost and the permanent changes to my voice. I’ll always have a deeper voice now, and that’s something I have to live with. But I don't blame my younger self. I was a kid who was hurting and was taken advantage of by a system that profits off confusion.
My thoughts on gender now are pretty simple. We are who we are born as. How you want to express yourself is your business, but no amount of surgery or hormones changes your sex. The idea that you need to medically transition to be your "authentic self" is a lie that’s hurting a lot of people, especially young kids who can’t possibly understand the lifelong consequences. The most important thing is to be happy with who you are, not to change your body to fit an ideal.
Looking back, I wish someone had sat me down and asked me why. Why did I hate my body? Why did I feel I needed to change? I needed to face my problems, not run from them. My journey taught me that the key to happiness isn't found in becoming someone else, but in learning to accept and live with yourself.
Here is a timeline of my transition and detransition events:
Age | Event |
---|---|
14-15 | Started feeling intense discomfort with my body during puberty. Began spending a lot of time online. |
16 | First encountered the concept of being transgender online. Started to socially transition (new name/pronouns). |
17 | Began taking testosterone after being convinced it was the solution to my unhappiness. |
18-19 | Realized the physical changes weren't resolving my underlying self-hatred and depression. Started to question the transition path. |
20 | Stopped taking testosterone and began the process of detransitioning. |
Present | Working on self-acceptance and coping with the permanent changes, like my deeper voice. |
Top Reddit Comments by /u/Ryncage:
The information did exist, and every activist and medical professional has been playing an active role in suppressing that information.
Now that the backlash is forming in the wings, suddenly all this info about the side effects of puberty blockers and hormone therapy are suddenly grand revelations again.
I really cant express how angry it gets me having watched this all unfold. Wishing you the best OP.
There are no winners in the victim Olympics. For all the oppression and would be hardships faced, you don't have to be afraid of getting found out and pushed off a 4 story building for it.
Yep. If you arent useful to the agenda or the cause, you get called a terf or whatever else to be shut up and removed from the last place you are told you will be accepted. Its very intention is to break your spirit and get you to tow the line.
You are basically correct.
Any ideas you have on masculinity are from the mind of you, as you are, as you have been born, raised, and what you experienced between then and now. Shaped and impacted by all of those internal and external factors: which at no point, will or ever can, make you a man.
Keeping that context is a good thing to do, and from there the situation becomes discovering what you need to think, do, or experience in order to let said dysphoria stop weighing you down in life. Best of luck!
It undermines their agenda.
They have to signal to their compatriots they are fighting the good fight.
Bitterness and resentment that they failed to get this sub canceled.
Bad actors intentionally trying to recruit / convert people.
Any or all of the above.
right wing? Eeeewwwww, how problematic.
Everyone here doing this routine is on the same level as the trans groups that dismiss this entire sub.
If you want to blast the study for being poorly sourced and the rest of it, by all means. But its depressing to see the bandwagoning taking root here.
The writing has been on the wall for generations, sadly, frustration beyond belief is all i can feel when watching and hearing this time and time again.
A tangent, if you will.
Treating it like its trendy? A fad? Just wanting to belong to a group and have a special prefix before what you want to call yourself? All incredibly shallow and vapid?
Yes. Because it is. Merely identifying as something different now comes with a large selection of privileges and advantages, enabled and pandered too by corporations and politically motivated actors.
Immediate acceptance into the collective with no downsides granted you say what must be said, and act how you must act. There is nothing geniuine or authentic about whats happening here, everyone can see it: and unless you are willing to risk your livelihood and reputation, all you can do is sit and watch: lest you become the bigot, the phobe, and the next target.
Anyone who has the slightest issue with these wolves in sheeps clothing, are the captive audiences to it all. Watching as it all spirals out of control, and people ride the good feelings of acceptance into hurting themselves in ways they can never undo.physically, emotionally, or otherwise.
And all of this is just surface level stuff. The manipulation, corruption, and subversion runs much deeper and is much more malicious than that. Pushing people who are actually trying to find answers or happiness into all the wrong places, spaces, and furthering the confusion and dysfunction.
A culture being promoted thats chief objective is to create unknowing victims. While this sub goes a long way in pushing back against the madness of it all, there is so much more that needs doing. Its disheartening.
Sorry for my babbling. The best thing you can do is focus on yourself, your desires, your life goals, and work towards them. The craziness around you is only temporary, unless you make it permanent. You shouldn't let shallow people motivate equally shallow actions right?
It'll take at a bare minimum, 1-2 generations of this before any serious change starts to take place / swing back into normalcy.
Stricktly because its political and so long as a phenomenon or culture can be pushed and pandered to for votes, it will be.
I suppose another large contributing factor is that the worst consequences of hormonal issues take decades to present themselves.
Its a terrible idea.
Synthetic hormones aren't like painkillers to just pop every time you have a feeling.
Each and every dose is going to accumulate permanent changes in your body. Some of which may become readily apparent, others which may not manifest for 10+ years. Most of which will not be pleasant.
Even as a last resort to someones issues I'm hesitant to suggest it, especially as time moves forward and the current generation of detransitioners discover more and more unforeseen consequences of hormone use.
Your setting yourself up for a lot of trouble with no refunds.
You've just been using transition as a form of escapism. You can only run from your problems for so long before they catch up to you.
Ignoring your problems is easier than facing them, so living life as a boy has been easier. Naturally.
If being Trans was even remotely a solution to your issues, you wouldn't be so cripplingly ashamed of it. It's just temporarily keeping the negative emotions away, but all of those feelings are going to compound and multiply, then somewhere in your late 20's you'll still be feeling just as miserable about yourself, but bewildering why you spent a decade doing nothing concrete about it.
What should you do? Face your problems and resolve the issues you have with yourself. How can you do that? It depends on if anything I've said "clicks" at all.
Wild how thinking that kids with their physically smaller brains just might not be experts on anything, is a crazy concept these days.
Even if a girl picks up a toy lawnmower or likes shorter hair, i wouldn't go out of my way to say "great! Look how GNC you are!".
Its a kid being a kid, enjoying whatever fascinates them within the moment. It doesn't need to be called anything or even pointed out.