Yeah it’s so weird how actuallesbians and twoxx have so much content concerning trans women because I mean… it’s ironic. They aren’t two x. It makes sense to me to include trans women who have integrated into society as women in certain spaces, but those spaces are still fundamentally for women. People born female living as female. And if a person can’t respect that those spaces were not originally made for them in mind, then they should get out and make their own damn place.

I truly think in 10-30 years when the "trans kids" start to hit middle age, there will be so much regret. People are going to start realizing the toll HRT/surgery has on the body and/or that they don't feel like they're living authentically. I hate to say it, but I genuinely think there will be mass suicides. I am livid at the way the medical industry has taken advantage of dysphoric people, ESPECIALLY kids and adolescents, most of whom were just going through shit and would have been fine without the snake oil sale. I am livid that the trans community, with very few exceptions, pushed transition for minors, gave platforms to men who clearly just have fetishes, and lied about the effects of transition because they can't admit to themselves that they f*cked up. Detransition has been traumatic for me but I'm so glad I got out relatively early and have the chance to live normally.

Yep. Transmen and female nb ppl are treated like we are so much more privileged than transwomen, even the transwomen who don't pass for female/haven't started transition. Like, no. You do not understand misogyny and female-born people will always deal with it in one way or another, even if they go stealth. This compounds with a lot of transwomen dismissing female concerns about our spaces and how lesbians in particular are treated for not being attracted to them. Wish they would stop talking over women for two seconds.

So sorry you've dealt with that, that's so stupid. I do not understand what possesses people to act like this. When I identified as trans I didn't expect gay men to be into me for... very obvious reasons lmao. Like why is it so hard to just be respectful. This is such childish and quite frankly predatory behavior

I'm like 20 pages in and I can't. I AM LIVID. These "doctors" are SICK. I am so fucking tired of people bending over backwards to defend them, them, the fucking surgeons and the fucking therapists that enable all this shit and throw dangerous, non-FDA approved cross-sex hormones at (mostly) young people because they're too FUCKING LAZY to do their gdamn jobs. Anyone trying to defend these people - don't bother. Don't waste your breath. Most understand that they are providing permanent solutions to temporary problems. They understand that these kids/teens don't comprehend what they're getting into and they don't care. They don't care at all!!

Fuck these people. They all deserve to be thrown in jail. There's a few I can think of off the top of my head that don't deserve life as far as I'm concerned. Absolutely disgusting butchery of children and adolescents.

Yeah, there’s definitely signs for females/males that transition isn’t right and something else is going on. Ime too soooo many of the detrans women I’ve met were SA’d, and then so many of us are gay/bi and have a ton of internalized misogyny. It’s literally heartbreaking to me when young women say they’re nonbinary because they don’t “feel like a woman.” I hate when people validate it because like, no you ARE a woman but you are dissociating from your sex. This is all going to blow up in 10 years

tbh transition through amputation of body parts (breasts, genitalia) is just normalized, well.... amputation. It's extremely unethical but I don't think a lot of people realize that because they don't understand the mentality of a dysphoric person, or a person so distressed by their limbs they want to remove them. Both are mental disorders. The difference is that people cheer on the surgeons who butcher dysphoric people and condemn the ones that remove limbs, ribs, etc. Like, I was crazy enough to get a double mastectomy because it was framed as life saving medical care. In the end, it's kids/teens and the extremely mentally unwell that are victimized by procedures like this.

I think we’re going to see a HUGE backlash against transition and trans people in the next 20 years, particularly because so many young people and literal children are transitioning. If trans stuff had been contained to a small percentage of the adult world and trans activists focused on respect and compassion for those suffering from GD (not necessarily agreeing with them! Just caring about trans people and their basic civil rights), then none of this would be a problem. But because huge amounts of trans communities are so dogmatic and hostile to people with questions/people who challenge aspects of transition, more everyday people are going to turn on them. People are getting sick of the trans community and the lgbt community in general, which sucks - I particularly feel this way about normal, well adjusted trans people. They are going to get fucked so hard because the trans community has pushed out any dissenters in favor of peddling ridiculous, impractical ideas about gender.

Mark my words there’s going to be a day of reckoning, and it won’t be pretty for any of us, including detransitioners. I hope that regardless some of us will get justice

I think a lot of MTFs have a very idealized version of womanhood, often very fetishized. Now I don't believe all trans women are malicious or predatory, but I have personally seen a LOT of misogyny, disrespect, and even assault from trans women. Sooo many of the TW I've met clearly thought of me as a piece of meat. I look back on my interactions with, actually, all of them and can't help but think to myself, you were always just a man. Idk even TW who have integrated into womanhood sometimes make me feel uncomfortable, like Blaire White. She just sexualizes herself so much and has also said some really misogynistic stuff, like being catty towards masc women, implying they're not "good at being women" because they're GNC. While I do not think she is a threat to women, unlike certain str8 AGP types, I honestly feel that she is a male putting on a highly sexualized caricature of females and I do find it insulting. I have a hard time trusting TW specifically because of all the terrible experiences I've had with them.

So dumb. Why is it that people like this equate questioning yourself and by extension the concept of gender to being right wing? There is nothing conservative about it. Do they really think the right would support us as we are, as gays, highly GNC people, and feminists? There’s no way. They just can’t stand we have a different perspective and throw the conservative label at us to discredit our experiences.