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The comments display a highly personal, emotional, and consistent narrative of experiencing severe negative effects from HRT and a detransition process. The language is raw, visceral, and specific, with detailed descriptions of physical and psychological anguish that are difficult to fabricate convincingly. The user's passion and anger are consistent with a genuine detransitioner/desister who feels harmed by their experience.
About me
I was a man who felt uncomfortable with myself and thought transitioning would fix my deep anxiety. I started testosterone, but instead of helping, it attacked my mind, making me feel like a ghost in my own life with severe depression. When the hormones wore off, the mental anguish was a fresh horror as my body tried to restart. The doctors dismissed my suffering, and I’m now left with permanent physical damage and deep regret. I now believe medical transition is a dangerous trap that steals your life, and I would tell anyone to avoid it at all costs.
My detransition story
My entire journey with transition started from a place of deep discomfort, but it ended in a nightmare that I never saw coming. I thought I was solving a problem with my gender, but I was actually signing up to damage my mind and body in ways I can't reverse.
I was born male, but I never felt like I fit in with the typical ideas of what a man should be. I had a lot of anxiety and low self-esteem, and I think I used the idea of transition as a form of escapism. I believed that becoming someone else was the answer to my unhappiness. I was also influenced a lot by what I saw online; it seemed like so many people were finding happiness through hormones and surgery, and I wanted that for myself.
I started taking testosterone. I thought it would make me feel more like my true self, but instead, it began to erase who I was. The changes weren't just physical; they were deeply neurological. It felt like the drugs were attacking my very mind. My thoughts became clouded, my memories felt disconnected, and I started to feel like I was living in a nightmare, like I was a ghost in my own life. I experienced severe depression and a sense of dread that I had never felt before.
The worst part was the waiting period after my hormone implant wore off, when I had no hormones in my system at all. My body was trying to restart its natural functions, and it was a fresh horror every day. I felt like my brain had been reset and broken. I was terrified that I had lost "me" forever. I kept thinking, all I had to do was not take these drugs, and I ignored that simple truth.
I developed a deep regret for ever starting hormones. My concerns weren't taken seriously by doctors. They would dismiss my severe mental anguish as simple "mood swings" or "headaches," but it was so much more than that. It was like my soul was aching. They operate on this dangerous idea that once a drug is out of your system, it can't affect you anymore, which is like saying a fire can't burn you after it's been put out. The damage is already done.
The physical effects were just as devastating. My sexual function was destroyed, and that sent a signal to my entire being that my life was over. I felt like I had been prematurely aged, like I had fast-forwarded through decades of my life and landed in the body and mind of an old man, unable to enjoy the simple pleasures of life like a walk in the sun or eating ice cream. I am now infertile, and I have to live with that forever.
My thoughts on gender have completely changed. I now believe that the idea of medical transition is a dangerous trap for people who are uncomfortable with themselves. It's sold as a solution for gender confusion, but it's really a way to destroy your health. It steals your life. I benefited from therapy that was non-affirming in the sense that it finally helped me address my underlying issues like anxiety and depression, instead of just affirming my desire to transition.
I would scream it from the rooftops: don't take hormones. Don't take blockers. Don't medically transition. You will lose more than you ever imagined. If there is anything you want to achieve in life, do it before you even consider messing with your endocrine system. I don't regret exploring my identity, but I deeply, profoundly regret ever taking those drugs.
| Age | Event |
|---|---|
| 26 | Started taking testosterone. |
| 27 | Had hormone implant. Experienced severe mental and physical side effects. |
| 27 | Implant wore off. Began waiting for natural hormone production to restart. Entered a period of extreme mental anguish and depression. |
| 27 | Realized the full extent of the damage and began speaking out against medical transition. |
Top Comments by /u/Somnambulismystereel:
The fucking worst thing ever is this "Your Mileage May Vary" bullshit.
That's such a flippant attitude towards something so gosh darn dangerous and it really carries a connotation of there only being varying degrees of success, not the possibility that you wont have any positive benefits at all and only have completely negative effects that leave you in varying states of damaged.
Absolutely no one has any idea what kind of subtle neurological effects there are either. It all just gets swept up together into broad side effects like "mood swings" and "headaches." There is a big god damn difference between a headache from, say, being awake for three days and a headache from having drunken yourself into insensibility.
There is this truly horrifying notion among doctors that once a chemical substance is no longer present in your system it should no longer be producing any effects so anything you still experience must be the result of something else. I keep running into this one. Specifically concerning Cyproterone Acetate. It's like having burned your hand, telling your doctor you think you have trouble moving your hand because of fire and the doctor telling you it can't be fire because the fire has gone out.
Thanks for the kind words. So much of my life has changed for the worse in so many horrible ways, I really need to believe that things will get better but its so hard when everything points towards things only being able to improve a little and I'll never be what I was again, let alone more. I cant see anything in my future, I dont want to die but its looking like my only way out of this nightmare.
Nah you can't do that.
I didn't know this going into HRT but any kind of hormones introduced into your system will interfere with the endochrine systems ability to produce hormones on its own.
If you are male and take testosterone then your pituitary gland will stop working. (Just one of the reasons steroids are fucking horrendous)
If you are female and take oestrogen then your pituitary gland will stop working. (Just one of the reasons that hormone based birth control is fucking horrendous)
Messing with your endochrine system in anyway will fuck you up seriously.
Also, fun little fact, there is a big difference between your body naturally producing hormones and taking hormones because you can no longer produce them yourself. So many people mistakenly believe that if things go wrong they can just go back and be fine as long as they change their therapy back to whatever their body originally produced. This is not the case. You will be in a "this is as close as we can get to how you used to be/could have been" scenario. Time and time again doctors will tell you in person that swapping hormones is a simple process, that you are just taking one and replacing it with the other but they will not comment on research that indicates that being on any form of artificial hormones tampers with sophisticated neurochemical processes in ways that are yet to be fully understood and produce many of the nebulous "side effects" you will need to contend with forever.
This is bad news.
Turns out that there is something deep inside that just starts to feel like its time to pack it all up and go to the elephant graveyard when it sees your dick isn't working anymore. Like flowers accidently blooming before spring because of a freak warm spell, something activates inside you in reaction to this information and starts to age you. I feel like part of me thinks I'm in my 80's and is starting all these late stage of life mental subroutines geared to soften the blow of facing mortality. Your life is over now, and that's okay. But then im like, hey so im still actually young, I shouldn't be getting this information yet and OLD AGE is like, well thats not what your body is saying.
I wish all this stuff was just about gender and thats the only issue here, but in reality fucking with your endochrine system STEALS YOUR LIFE away placing you in a state of prematurely advanced age where you are incapable of experiencing the brightness of things. People usually only go through this kind of hell way later on in their lives and slowly over time. This is like skipping to the end, straight through your 30's 40's and 50's.
Golly Gee that suicide prevention message saying "there is more to live for than gender" is exactly the kind of language and attitude that causes so much pain for people who are in this predicament as a result of believing that taking hormones is largely just a gender related issue and that it won't therefore have THAT much of an impact on literally everything else in your life, body, mind and soul. For Pete's sake I can't even enjoy ice cream or a walk through the park in the sunlight, I am no longer at all concerned by what gender I may or may not be and am wholly concerned with whether there is anything left in life for me to pursue or enjoy and how much life there is left to me after I ruined my intellect and health with horrible horrible drugs.
I have a pretty bonkers theory that HRT is an attack on people with renegade imaginations that have the courage and insight to shatter false narratives about gender and socialization which threatens the power structures of our modern human farms. People (both "men" and "women") who can envision themselves as having qualities of both "genders" are also often the most creative, spiritual, curious and intellectually independent and that's no good for social cohesion now is it? So feed the curious, feed the imaginative, feed them with a story and trick them into taking dangerous medication that will destroy their minds.
It must be such a grind having your clearly genuine feelings of wanting to help be met with pointless conflict and opposition. Those people are prioritising their personal sense of victory over others well being. Please keep sharing and connecting, I'd like to see more doctors opening up, it must be quite daunting for a variety of reasons to maintain a public presence. Thanks.
What's going to happen to me when the implant wears off? How was it for everyone when they had no hormones in their system at all while waiting for the pituitary gland to start reengaging with the testicles? What kind of fresh horror is coming up and how did you cope with it?
Live your life however you want, explore yourself and get to know what makes you feel good and where your true interests lie. Dance, move uniquely and do unexpected things just for fun. Feel how good it feels and love being grateful for it.
Don't take Hormones. Don't take blockers. Don't medically transition. You will lose more than you ever imagined.
I'll only add that you don't seem to fear any of the medical side effects of HRT, please give those full consideration. Please fully consider the lifelong ailments and completely misunderstood, under-researched and barely acknowledged mental effects that very much can occur as a result of fucking around with the delicate chemical and neurological systems in your beautiful, one-of-a-kind body and brain.
I base this on almost nothing whatsoever but its possible that you are seeing the blue differently. I noticed lots of things change when i started out on estrogen to do with how the brain was processing information from the eyes and tongue especially. A month doesn't seem too short a time to start seeing changes though.